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Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Silent Genocide

Can’t say that I would argue with singer Billie Elish’s statement made when she accepted her 2026 Grammy Award for Song of the Year.  She stated, “No one is illegal on stolen land.”  This is in reference to the war being waged on immigrants by the Trump administration.  The land our nation claims is land stolen—not bought and paid for—from the original people who inhabited it.  History clearly documents the “land grab”.  In this way, we are all immigrants.  outside of Native Americans, all of us originated from somewhere else . . .came from somewhere else . . . immigrated here. 

 

I can’t argue with that because it is true.  Ms. Eilish caught some flack over the statement because it seems that her home—a multi-million-dollar mansion—sits on “stolen land”.  That land originally belonged to the Tongva Tribal Nation.  The tribe acknowledged this fact but stated that the singer has never contacted them about the land.  They appreciate the acknowledgement of the land as “indigenous” but question her sincerity.  They kind of see it as a “prayer and thoughts” sort of statement. 

 

No one wants to be called a hypocrite.  A day or two after the Grammy Awards, Ms. Eilish put out a statement about a recent ancestry test she took.  The test revealed that she had a small percentage of Native American heritage in her family background.  A DNA test. The test confirmed that she was 1/164th Native American.  Though she doesn’t agree, the implication is that “technically” she has a right to the land that her mansion sits on.  She acknowledges that being “native” is more than a number from a DNA test.  That just shows the person where he or she comes from.  Real proof comes in honoring the land, history, culture, and living communities. 

 

Though Ms. Eilish understands this, there are a lot of people who see her 1/164th score as validation of her indigenous heritage and place in a tribe.  Lots of people believe this.  They believe it because that is the great American myth and most are ignorant of history and reality. 

From the beginning, the goal of the people who settled here and formed our nation was the land.  To own the land, they need to remove the inhabitants already occupying it. They used concepts like the “Doctrine of Discovery” and “Manifest Destiny” to justify their actions.  Our nation was built upon these ideologies.  Colonialization—plain and simple. But to work the inhabitants either had to be removed, assimilated, or eliminated . . . they had to disappear.  

 

History paints the story if we want to delve deeper than the white-washed garbage the present administration wants to sell us.  From the beginning of our nation, the original inhabitants were to be removed—even extinguished.  Pushed westward from their lands, found, massacred, poisoned with disease, starved as their food sources were annihilated, rounded up, placed on reservations, made to assimilate, boarding schools . . . all designed to rid the land of these people.  To get rid of them.  Genocide.  History shows this movement of genocide.  

 

General Philip Sheridan in 1869 declared, “The only good Indian I ever saw is a dead Indian.”  This became “The only good Indian is a dead Indian.”  Richard Pratt, founder of the Carlisle Indian Industrial School in Pennsylvania (model for all boarding schools), in 1879, had this to say, “Kill the Indian, save the man.”  Both were staunch in their goals of getting rid of the “Indian problem” . . . both had their methods of genocide.  The goal was removal and the mans was genocide.  Look it up. Plenty has been written and is being written about it.  It is the wiping out of people and their cultures. 

 

Thank goodness our nation no longer practices genocide . . . right?  I suppose, considering the present administration’s immigration policies and activities, that statement is debatable.  It sure feels like genocide no matter how much this administration wraps it up in “red, white, and blue”.  If you ask the Native American tribes, they will tell you that genocide is alive and well.  Instead of blatant it is more subtle . . . almost silent, but it is still there.  Which brings me back to Ms. Eilish and this idea of DNA or blood as the definitive solution to who us a Native American. 

 

Blood quantum—a controversial, colonial-era policy measuring the amount of “Indian blood” a person possesses to determine Native American identity and tribal enrollment. 

 

The goal of blood quantum is not to quantify “Indianness” but to bring “Indianness” or “Indians” to the state of extinction.  To make them disappear.  This is not a scientific-based method—there is no science that grounds it.  The only “science” might be the fact that if this practice continues there will be no Indians/Native Americans remaining—no tribes—they will be eliminated through simple math.  Blood quantum is not real.  It is made up.  Created to extinguish Native Americans.  Silent genocide.  

 

Tailyr Irvine is a photojournalist whose work has been published in National Geographic, the New York Times, the Smithsonian, the Washington Post, and Wall Street Journal. She has hosted shows across the country.  She has been on the national Public Broadcasting System’s programs.  She is a registered member of the Salish and Kootenai Tribal Nation on the Flathead Reservation in Montana.  She shares the stories of life and culture from the Native side.  One story that intrigued and bothered her was about blood quantum.  The result was a documentary story, Reservation Mathematics: Navigating Love in Native America.  Ms. Irvine states that this “not real” issue “focuses on how the government-imposed system of blood quantum affects who Natives marry, who they have kids with, who they spend their life with and how this number dictates one of the intimate choices that we have.”  The end result is extinction.  Take a moment to watch her as she explains this silent genocide.  There is a short version at this link, or a longer version that explains it in greater deal at this link.  She tells the story well. 

 

Ms. Eilish’s statement pulled back the curtain hiding the long-held secret of genocide against Native Americans who were the original inhabitants of our nation.  It still exists.  It is still practiced.  Amazingly the Native Americans are a resilient people who have survived this continuing onslaught of purposeful extinction.  And, yes, it will continue.  As the Trump administration has demonstrated since Day One, there is an on-going cleansing of America hidden behind ridding our country of illegal immigrants.  It is cleansing”.  It is an act of aggression.  An act of cruelty.  All aimed at ridding our nation of people of color. We witness it daily.  Because their skin and culture are not “white” . . . they must go. 

 

I have Native American friends who now carry tribal documents stating that they are American citizens.  Proof that they belong.  I am scared for them.  I am scared for my neighbor who is Hispanic.  He is a naturalized citizen of the United States.  A legal resident who has jumped through all the hoops, signed all the papers, and sworn allegiance to the country.  But I watch daily to see if unmarked vehicles will come, a knock upon his door, and him being escorted away.  Not only him, but others.  Not only people of color, but people of gender.  A couple, gay, live on the corner of the street.  The vile rhetoric and treatment against the LGBTQ+ have made me fear for them.  They are not wanted by the present administration.  Actions speak louder than words and demonstrate this fact.  No one is safe who is contrary to the present administration’s desires and whims . . . no one.  

These are scary times.  We are witnessing the act of genocide cloaked in patriotism . . . draped in “red, white, and blue”.  We cannot turn away.  We must ally ourselves with those who are being attacked.  If not . . . well, remember the words of Pastor Martim Niemoller: 

First they came for the Communists 

And I did not speak out 

Because I was not a Communist 

Then they came for the Socialists 

And I did not speak out 

Because I was not a Socialist 

Then they came for the trade unionists 

And I did not speak out 

Because I was not a trade unionist 

Then they came for the Jews 

And I did not speak out 

Because I was not a Jew 

Then they came for me 

And there was no one left 

To speak out for me 

 

Friday, September 13, 2024

Love is Never Having to Say You’re Sorry

I will admit that I have a sappy, sentimental streak.  I sometimes tear up at movies and songs that touch my emotions.  I just can’t help it whenever those emotions well up and come spilling out.  As I get older it seems to affect me more often.  The difference now is that I am not so quick to blurt the excuse that “something got in my eyes” . . . no, the truth is “something touched my heart.”

In 1970 the big hot-to-trot romantic movie was Love Story starring Ryan O’Neal and Ali MacGraw.  A real tearjerker.  The movie was written by Eric Segal based on the book that he wrote with the same title.  Both the book and the movie were huge successes.  Outside of a huge crush on Ali MacGraw, the movie did not do much for me.  It was hokey . . . and I lost all respect for it when MacGraw blurted out to O’Neal, after an angry argument in which he apologizes, “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.” Actually, what was said was, “Love means not ever having to say you’re sorry.”

 

That is something a person in an abusive relationship believes.

 

The falsehood behind that statement is that this is how unconditional love is . . . a love that never goes away . . . despite hurtful mistakes, words, and actions.  This is hogwash.  “Society fills our heads with all sorts of nonsensical notions about how we should think, feel, and act,” writes Dr. David Luddon in an article for Psychology Today.  “The idea that love means never having to say you’re sorry is emotionally appealing.  Yet nothing could be further than the truth.”

 

I think politicians—especially during election years (and what year is not an election year)—have been falling back on this fallacy since 1970 when Love Story romantically proclaimed it.  “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.”  Politicians embrace it and roll it out whenever they hurt or insult the people.  They never apologize.  Why?  Because they love the people so much . . . unconditionally.  Why else would they ever be running for public office?  They love people and because they unconditionally love the people they are never going to admit they were wrong and hurtful.  Never going to apologize.  Never. It would be a “sign” of weakness.  No one wants a “weak” person leading our governments no matter at what level that government is.  

 

Which brings up Tim Sheehy.  Sheehy is the transplant millionaire campaigning to be one of Montana’s senators.  He is embracing this altruistic baloney while slinging mud and falsehoods across the campaign trail.  He seems to be an equal opportunity mudslinger leaving no stone or person unturned and untouched as he insults those, he is running against . . . and he does it because he loves Montana and the people who call it home.  He loves us . . . unconditionally.  So why should he apologize if he insults and hurts us?

 

Remember . . . “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.”

 

Hogwash!  Ask Montana’s indigenous population.  Ask the people of the Crow Nation.  Sheehy has been exposed for making racist and antiquated statements that stereotype Native Americans at several fundraising events over the past year.  Even sadder than the statements he made was the fact that those gathered laughed.  Janine Pease, a respected and admired elder and wisdom-keeper of the Crow Nation was rightly outraged by the statements he made.  Like other indigenous in Montana and across the country she demands an apology.  Read her post on her Facebook page.

 

Unfortunately, it is an apology that probably will never come . . . Tim Sheehy loves the Crow people too much to apologize.  He has got their best interests in mind.  Because of this unconditional love he is never going to apologize.  It would make him look weak.  Who wants a weak leader representing Montana in the Senate?

 

Typically, there are two reasons why a person cannot apologize . . . they don’t care and believe that it doesn’t matter.  Let us not fool ourselves into believing that Sheehy is an outlier.  He is not.  Most politicians are in the same boat.  They don’t care and cannot see or accept the impact of their words upon those they put down.  It has been a long time since they cared and half-hearted or half-assed apologized.  They don’t care and it does not matter.  Candidates running for office from the president on down to the local dog catcher are doing it.  They all smile and respond, “Who loves ya, baby?”

 

It breaks my heart.  Breaks by heart to realize how far we—"the people”—have fallen for this and allowed ourselves to be in such an abusive situation/relationship.  What Sheehy has done is wrong.  An apology is not good enough for the Crow Nation and other indigenous Montanans.  Saying “I’m sorry” is not good enough.  Reconciliation is necessary . . . a reconciliation that I believe will never happen, just as an apology will never be given.

 

We, the people of the United States of America, should demand more from those who are seeking to represent us.  Throw away the words of the politicians because those words ring hollow.  Instead demand that action take place.  Make the words congruent with actions.  Don’t tell us that you love us—show us.  Until then we—the American people—need to step out of this abusive relationship.  As it has been said before, “vote the bums out.”

 

I stand with my brothers and sisters of the Crow Nation . . . of the indigenous people of Montana and beyond . . . in their woundedness.  I feel their pain . . . their frustration . . . their anger.  This is not some remote incident.  It happens all the time.  Turn on your television, listen to your radios, read the papers, check out the social media . . . it is there in plain sight for all to see.  We must quit nervously laughing and being silent on such injustice and cruelty.  We are better than that and deserve better.  No, love is not never apologizing.  Love is holding those who have hurt us and others up to the standards of love—treating others as we would want to be treated, respect, acceptance, and inclusion.

 

“I’m sorry” is not good enough.  Nothing short of reconciliation is “true, unconditional love.”  That is something that brings a tear to my eyes every time.