“Leave
people better than you found them.”
(Attributed
to many)
The quote above was posted on a friend’s
Facebook page several weeks ago . . .
and, it has been working on me ever since.
Whenever out in the woods or mountains hiking or camping, the old
scouting adage is to “leave the area in better shape than you found it.” I was not much of a scout . . . made it up to
the Webelos (mostly by default) before I gave up on this structured setting . .
. but I did learn that statement. I
learned it and have always tried to live by it whenever I am out in woods or
mountains enjoying God’s creation. I
always make sure I clean up my mess and the mess of anyone who was before me .
. . I attempt to make sure that it was left in the way that I found it, if not
better than I found it. That is just
common sense . . . it is just good stewardship.
Thus I was taken back when I read the little twist to the old adage . .
. instead of nature it refers to people.
I think that as human beings we do a
fairly decent job of being good stewards of God natural creation . . . though I
do think that we can do a much better job . . . but, I am not sure we even
attempt to be good stewards of our fellow human creations when it comes to
stewardship. I don’t think that we are
too good at remembering that we should “leave people better than we found them.” In looking around the world in which we live
. . . witnessing the violence perpetuated against one and other . . . seeing
the blatant discrimination and prejudice . . . watching the war that is being
waged . . . seeing the hungry who are starving . . . catching glimpses of the “warehousing”
of people in society (and this is not a reference only to the prison systems of
the world) . . . pushing and leaving others further and further from the
so-called acceptable of society . . . I think it is difficult to admit that as
humans we are not the best stewards of the human creations of God. None of us has to look too hard to find this
truth as we only have to watch the evening news on television or read the
latest edition of the newspaper . . . we are inundated with the evidence that
we are poor stewards of God’s human creations.
Which is sad.
Sad because we are called to love our
neighbors . . . to love our fellow human creations . . . as we love
ourselves. I would wager that all the
major religions tell us this. I would
wager that even those who do not believe in God aspire to this. I would wager that it is just common sense
and good moral living . . . it is the “golden rule”. Yet, we have a difficult time in doing
this. We are not good at leaving others
better than we found them despite the fact that the root of love is to make the
“other” better . . . to want the best for the “other” . . . to grow and become
who they were created to be . . . to become “whole” and “holy”. We want it for ourselves, so why wouldn’t we
want it for others . . . especially those we say we love. Yet, the witness of the world in which we
live says that we are a long, long, long way from that idea of stewardship . .
. stewardship of the soul.
It is also sad because we all do it .
. . all of us.
Though I am a follower of Jesus, which
in the eyes of many makes me a “Christian”, I believe that all the major religions
and belief systems begin in the same place . . . we begin with ourselves. We are to learn to love ourselves . . . to
love ourselves as God created us . . . to embrace that creation in relationship
with the God who created us . . . to discover—through God’s eyes—who we
are. Before we can ever love anyone else
we must learn to love ourselves. From there
we love others. Thus it was that Jesus
stated that we are to “love one another as we love ourselves.” As I have said many times before, looking at
the world around us, there are not too many people who seem to love themselves. If this is the case, well then, it is
difficult to be good stewards of others in our lives . . . and, that is sad.
We are not good stewards of souls . .
. probably ours or others. Think of life
as a journey or a hike. We move along
whatever trail it is that we are tramping down and as we go along we encounter
others . . . sort of like natural sites along the way. Are these “obstacles” or “opportunities” . .
. that is the question and dilemma before us on our journey. For various reasons—some good, some bad, I
think that for most of us we view them as “obstacles” or at least “bumps in the
road” that slow us down. In life, as in
the journey, we just barrel our way through such things in order to get to
wherever it is that we are going . . . we leave them in our wake . . . never
realizing the impact we have had on the life of another. We are not good with others unless they are
within our inner circle.
In our lives there are concentric
circles of relationships. In the center
stands us. Radiating out from us are the
circles of relationships we have in our lives.
The first circle is for those we are the closest . . . spouses,
children, grandchildren, parents. In the
next circle are those who we love, but are not as close to . . . other
relatives, friends. In the next circle
are those we work with; the next acquaintances; the next people we know, but
don’t know; and, in the last strangers.
As the circles spin outward from our center we spend less and less time
and energy on those who occupy them. We
do this to the point that those within the last circle do not even cross our
consciousness unless pointed out by another.
Each and every individual in those
circles has the same basic need . . . they want to be acknowledged and loved .
. . they want to be seen and accepted . . . they want to be a part of the “family”. We all know this. Yet, research has shown that the farther that
circle of relationship spins the less we “acknowledge” or “love”. Thus the further out the circle spins the
lousier we are at leaving people better than we found them. I don’t think that any of us wants to be
lousy at the care of other’s souls. I
don’t think any of us wants to experience it either. Yet, we all have experienced it . . . and, we
have all been guilty of it.
So how do we “solve” this problem? How do we become better stewards of the soul
. . . especially the souls of others?
One of my favorite words is “hineni”
from the Hebrew language. “Hineni”
simply means, “I am here.” These were
the words that Abraham and Moses said in the presence of God—“here I am.” It is to make one’s self present in the
presence of another . . . to set aside all the barriers and obstacles that keep
one from being fully in the presence of another . . . it is to acknowledge the
other and to make one’s self available—body, mind, and soul—to another. It is to be “present”. It is to be still and know.
There is the catch . . . to be
still. We are on a journey. We have places to go . . . things to do . . .
and, maybe even people to see (but apparently not the majority of people we
encounter). We are a busy people. We are a distracted people. We are a selfish people. It is hard to be still, and even harder to be
still in the presence of another. Besides,
it is difficult to hit a moving target; thus God tells us to be still and know.
The stewardship of the soul begins
with us as individuals. We be still and
know who we are in relationship to ourselves, to God, and to others. We learn to love who we have been created to
be. We learn to love our relationship
with God. From there we move outward
into the world to share this great love with others . . . but, it can only happen
if we can be still and know others where they stand. It is a courtesy that comes out of respect
that we owe to all people we encounter on the journey we call life—we are to be
still and know them. We are to practice “hineni”. It is there that we have the opportunity to
leave people better than we found them.
It is there we begin to practice the stewardship of souls.
“To leave people better than we found
them.”
I think it is the goal of life . . .
the challenge of living a good life . . . something that we all need to work
on. It begins where we are . . . always
where we are . . . and, it radiates out from there. It is the least we owe one another if we are
ever going to make the world a better place for others.
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