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Sunday, April 7, 2024

A Little Birdie Told Me

A little birdie told me . . . it’s spring.

Though Mother Nature is fighting it . . . it is spring.  The “signs” have all been there for a couple of weeks despite the alternating winter/spring weather duking it out.  Yes, it is Montana where the weather can change by the minute, but nature has been trying to tell us . . . it is spring.  We just need to listen better.

 

In his book, Voices in the Stones: Life Lessons from the Native Way, Kent Nerburn shares a story about an encounter he has with an elderly Native American man at a little cafĂ© on a reservation on a North Dakota reservation.  The two of them talked and the conversation meandered into the topic of the “old ways” of life and how they had been taken from the Native Americans by the predominant “white society”.  The man shared a story about how in the “old ways” it was understood that the spirit of life flowed through everything . . . that all things were of a kindred spirit . . . that there was a relationship between all things.  Now they were gone.

 

The story as he told it:

“Things have really changed,” he went on.  “The old ways—the way I was raised—they’re gone now.  They took them away from us.”

 

He looked away and stared into the distance.  I had touched something deep in him.

 

“My grandma,” he said, “she could talk to the animals.  She liked to hang clothes out on the line, stand out in the sun and the wind.  She used to talk to the meadowlarks.  They would sit on the fence posts, and she would sometimes laugh and say things to them.

 

“I remember one day she got angry and threw a rock at one of them.  I heard her scolding it as it flew away.  A little neighbor girl died the next day.  Grandma must not have liked what the meadowlark had to say.”

 

He took a sip of his coffee and gazed past me almost as if I wasn’t there.  “I guess we forgot their language.  Or maybe they just don’t want to talk to us now.” (Voices in the Stones: Life Lessons from the Native Way, Ken Nerburn, 2016)  

 

All creation stories are different from culture to culture.  At the same time, they all have the same theme.  As I understand it, in the beginning God created the heavens, earth, and all that inhabit it.  Upon completion God declared that it was all good.  That it was God’s creativity and breath that set it all into motion.  That creativity and breath linked it all together.  It is all the essence and presence of God. 

 

Luther Standing Bear, the great Lakota chief, said: “From . . . from the Great Spirit there came a great unifying life force that flowed in and through all things—the flowers of the plains, the blowing winds, rocks, trees, bird, animals—and was the same force that had been breathed into the first man.  Thus all things were kindred and were brought together by the same Great Mystery.”

 

I think that we have forgotten.  We are a part of creation . . . we are not the creation itself.  The world does not revolve around us, but that we are piece of the puzzle we call creation.  All of it together makes a whole and makes it holy. 

 

As I read Nerburn’s story of the old man’s grandmother, I could not help but to be jarred by his closing statement: “I guess we forgot their language.  Or maybe they just don’t want to talk to us now.”  There is no doubt in my mind that we humans are a forgetful group—history verifies that for us as we continue to make the same mistakes over and over again.  What concerns me is that “they just don’t want to talk to us now.”  To me that signals that the relationship has been broken . . . that it has become too strained to sustain . . . that we blew it.

 

I love the outdoors.  Montana was always the ultimate embodiment of the “great outdoors” for me.  It was a big part of the underlying desire to move and live in Montana . . . that and the fact that there are only about six people per square mile.  An introvert’s wildest dream!  When I am outdoors, I feel the most connected to the holy . . . to the Creator . . . to God.  I also believe that I have a relationship with the outdoors and all of nature . . . that I have something to learn, to gain, to allow myself to grow and understand about all of creation.  I believe that we humans are intimately connected to creation—to nature, and that it has something to teach us about life.  Humans are not the “end all”.  Creation was around long before we humans showed up and was going quite well without us.  I believe that this relationship is necessary if we humans are to be fully who we have been created to be.  We are called to be “one” as Creation.

 

Thus, it saddens me to see the great disconnect.  Have we forgotten the language?  Probably.  Has creation decided it no longer wants to communicate—to talk—with us?  Again, probably.

 

I am no Dr. Dolittle.  I cannot talk to the animals . . . well, partially.  I think that my dogs understand me.  We talk.  I am greeted each evening with “aroooooo” from Birdie, our Borgie (Border Collie/Corgi mix).  She understands when I tell her to get certain toys, much to the amazement of my wife.  She communicates to me when she wants to go for a walk.  She sits at my feet and stares me down.  It is a stare that tells me, “Walk me!”  Quinn, the mini-wiener dog, has conversations with me all of the time.  She is not timid in letting me know that she is ready to eat or that she wants to go out.  She barks at me until I move.  I talk to her, and she barks.  It is often an enlightening conversation for me.  There is a relationship.  One I am thankful for because my pups take me for who I am.  There is definite communication there. 

 

I guess it would be nice to be Dr. Dolittle and have the ability to speak to the animals.  But the truth is . . . the critters are always talking to us if we are listening.  As we transition from winter to spring, it is the animals that convey the message that “spring is here!”  For me, the message is delivered by the aves or birds.  When I see the first Mountain Bluebird flitting around.  When the Sandhill Cranes start showing up in the fields.  When the first Osprey is perched on its nest.  They are telling me that spring is here.  The return of the Red-winged Blackbird. There is the first skunk in the yard.  The racoons start hitting the birdfeeders.  The bears wake up and make their presence known.  All convey the message that spring is here.  They are communicating . . . are we listening?

 

The rest of nature is talking too . . . maybe a little prematurely.  But that seems to be the case each year.  The grass in the yard is greening and growing.  Flowers and herbs are sprouting up.  Some trees are even getting buds.  The bugs have started showing up and making their presence as splatters on the windshield.  And the weeds.  I have seen the tell-tale signs of my neighbor’s angst sprouting in the mud . . . dandelions.  Nature is talking . . . are we listening?

 

I’ve heard people here and there comment about the fact that it seems that spring is coming earlier each year.  Screwy weather, they say.  They are right.  It is screwy weather, but it is also a definite message being sent if we are listening.  I blame it on climate change even though such a response typically gets me labeled as a “liberal tree hugger” by everyone else.  Looking at the craziness of the last decade’s weather and its severity    across the globe . . . creation is speaking and speaking with urgency. 

 

Way back in my teen years I remember the big push for ecology and things like “Earth Day”.  I remember commercials with Iron Eyes Cody—the Sicilian actor who made his career playing a Native American—as he paddled his canoe down a polluted river and shedding a tear.  Or the commercial of the grandpa walking his grandson along a trashed beach and having the questioned posed, “Is this what we are leaving our grandchildren?”  Creation . . . nature . . . was knocking on the door attempting to get our attention about the crappy stewardship of the planet we were practicing.  Now Creation is slapping us in the face to get our attention.  But are we listening?

 

Probably not.  Even if we were, I imagine it is with acute selective hearing.   We only hear and see what is advantageous to us. 

 

You see there are two sides to the story . . . at least for those who are going to base the story on the holy writ of their Christian faith.  In the Book of Genesis there are two creation stories.  There is the calendar story of the Creator creating something and declaring it a day and that “it is good”.  In that story the emphasis is on humanity having dominion over creation.  In the second story we get a folksier tale.  It is the Adam and Eve story.  Again, the Creator creates, but this time there is a different charge to the humans . . . be good stewards of creation.  One story emphasizes dominion over creation while the other speaks of stewardship—of relating to creation and taking care of it for the benefit of all.  Ever since people have taken one side or the other with everything in-between.

 

Dominion has won out most often.  That dominion has created the mess we are living in today . . . and it is a mess.  I’m no scientist, but I know that the average temperature has gotten warmer each year.  The weather patterns have shifted.  The storms are more severe.  Humans are gobbling up more and more of the earth.  We are dumping more and more pollutants into the air, water, and soil.  It is screwing things up.  The critters have been trying to tell us.  Nature has been trying to tell us.  The Creator . . . God . . . or whatever spark of the Holy that guides your life, has been attempting to tell us.

But we don’t hear . . . or we don’t listen.

 

As the old man said, “I guess we forgot their language.  Or maybe they just don’t want to talk to us now.”  Though he was lamenting the near genocide of his culture and its ways, there is a movement of recovery of those cultures and ways.  It is coming back slowly and can succeed if the dominant culture doesn’t bring down its iron fist of dominion.  It is up to the dominant culture to decide.  There is still time.  There is still time to learn the language.  Still time to listen.  Still time to change our ways.  Still time to embrace Creation, be good stewards, and live in harmony. 

 

We begin by listening.  I know it is true because a little birdie told me.  The question is . . . are you listening?    


 

Thursday, November 9, 2023

Everything Has a Voice

Someone once said that “everything has a voice if we just listen.”

That’s the key . . . are we listening?

 

Theodor Seuss Geisel was an American children’s author known for his work writing and illustrating more than 60 books.  Everyone knows him as Dr. Seuss.  Before becoming a children’s book author, he was an illustrator and cartoonist—political cartoonist.  Surprisingly one of my favorite Dr. Suess books reflects the fact that he never could completely step away from the moral and political issues of his day.  The book? Horton Hears a Who.

 

Prior to World War II, during and afterwards, Geisel harbored strong anti-Japanese sentiments.  That changed after he visited post-war Japan.  After his visit he began to view the Japanese as fellow human beings worthy of acknowledgement, respect, and acceptance.  Everyone belongs.  Everyone has a voice.  If you listen, you can hear.  Horton Hears a Who is Geisel’s allegory for the United States occupation of post-war Japan.  On his visit he witnessed the atrocious aftermath of the Hiroshima bomb.  It changed his heart.  He dedicated the book to his friend: “My Great Friend, Mitsugi Nakamura of Kyoto, Japan.”

 

The story is simple.  Horton, the elephant, finds a speck of dust floating in the jungle of Nool.  Inspecting the dust speck, Horton discovers the tiny city of Who-ville and its residents.  He can hear them but cannot see them.  They are too small to see, but they can be heard.  Forming a relationship with the Who-ville mayor, Horton promises to transport the tiny city to safety.  The problem?  No one else in the jungle believes Horton and create all sorts of opposition to the point that they are about to “boil that dust speck.”  Horton pleads for them to listen.

 

The famous line from the book?

 

“A person is a person, no matter how small.”

 

We are living in a time in which the silence around us is deafening.  I doubt anyone would argue that these are not divisive times, not only in our nation but across the world.  Yet, this is not new to our times . . . it has always been across the full spectrum of history.  It is a struggle for power . . . struggle for control.  In that struggle you are either “with us or against us.”  Unfortunately, such a mindset creates huge chasms of separation and casts the “unwanted” into the shadows . . . to the outside . . . longing and wanting to be accepted and to belong . . . to be acknowledged.  They go by many names . . . the poor . . . different cultures, races, and nations other than our own . . . women . . . the disabled . . . the LGBTQIQ . . . religions other than our own . . . liberal/conservative . . . minorities . . . political parties . . . skin color . . . the naked, oppressed, imprisoned, forgotten.  Anyone who is not like us.  The intolerance of the world we live in has silenced those who have been thrown to the shadows . . . and that silence is deafening.  We are all slowly inching our way into that shadowland . . . into that silence.  We are slowly becoming the outsiders.

 

And it is not new.

 

It has always been there.

 

Remember these words written by Pastor Martin Niemoller?  His is a complicated story, and like Geisel he had a change of heart, thus these famous words written in 1947:

 

First they came for the Communists

And I did not speak out

Because I was not a Communist

Then they came for the Socialists

And I did not speak out

Because I was not a Socialist

Then they came for the trade unionists

And I did not speak out

Because I was not a trade unionist

Then they came for the Jews

And I did not speak out

Because I was not a Jew

Then they came for me

And there was no one left

To speak out for me

 

Everything has a voice if you just listen.

 

We need to listen.  That deafening silence echoes with the voices of those on the outside . . . those thrown out . . . those deemed not “worthy” . . . the expendables.  Are we listening?  There are so many voices crying out to be heard . . . and, yet, it seems that they are not being heard.  Which is a lie.  The voices are being heard.  They are being heard and ignored. 

 

Why?

 

I can’t speak for anyone else, but I will go out on a limb and venture that the silence of response is grounded in fear.  Fear that if one speaks out that he or she will be cast aside like those they are speaking for.  That in speaking and standing for those on the outside will get you ostracized as being one of those who need to be removed.  Retaliation and mudslinging is an effective tool in our day and age of silencing those who would rise up to speak for those who are not being heard.  Don’t believe it?  Check out the political world we are living in and tell me it is not true.  The silence only grows.

 

It is scary to speak up.  Ask Horton.  Again, I can not speak for everyone, nor can I speak for the “church” with a capital “C”.  I can only speak as one follower of Jesus Christ.  My understanding is that Jesus calls those who follow his ways to listen and to speak out for those who are on the outside and in the shadows.  I am not sure that the “church” with a capital “C” does that as its factions are busy trying to survive.  Yet Jesus calls those who believe in his ways to listen and speak out . . . to love . . . the outsider.  To bring them to the table and let them take their God-given place at the table no matter who they are.  That is God’s kingdom.

 

Remember Matthew 25:31-46?  It is a classic case of “were you listening” straight out of the mouth of Jesus.

 

As I have said before, this is not something new.  We probably have been dealing with this since the beginning of time.  For some reason, though, it seems worse today.  Maybe it is the innocents who are killed in the wars waged between nations and political ideologies.  Maybe it is in the political battles that are stripping human rights from those within our own families, within our own nation, laying waste to so many lives.  Maybe it is the way that those who are different are so easily disregarded and marginalized . . . thrown away.  Maybe it is the blatant downward spiral of human decency that cannot acknowledge and accept those who are different despite them all being created in the image of God. It just feels worse and the future does not look bright . . . especially those who are on the outside looking in.  And believe it or not, more of us are joining that group.

 

Everything has a voice and if we listen, we can hear.

 

And if we listen, will we respond . . . will we act?  Isn’t that the question that we need to answer?  “Prayers and thoughts” are no longer good enough.  When I hear that someone offers “prayers and thoughts”, I think that is taking the easy way out and making oneself look good in the eyes of others.  It is cop out.  If we really cared, then we should act . . . we should do something . . . speak out.  We should stand by those who are silenced and be their voice. 

 

We should not compound the silence of the world screaming out to be heard by adding our own to it.  We should speak out . . . even if it is one voice at a time.  Others will hear it and find strength to join.  Truth and love cannot be silenced.  Everyone and everything deserves to be heard . . . deserves to be accepted . . . deserves to be love . . . just as God created them.

 

God or whatever you want to call the higher power or spirit is the keeper of the table . . . not us.

 

Let us listen and hear before it is too late.  Before there is no one to hear and speak for us.